~which is fine~
I'm a better happier person when I have that daily peace.
But my next resolutions are going to give me a true internal peace.
These are the ones that actually matter.
Resolution #4
Be a more submissive and supportive wife
This is a pretty easy one when times are going good and there aren't any disagreements between my husband and I.... But not so easy
{understatement}
when he makes me mad in some way.
I have a wonderful husband and we rarely argue but I need to keep my attitude in check.
I know that in an argument~ I get defensive way too quickly.
I don't need to get my way every time.
I shouldn't try to get my way every time.
This one is tough for me~~I like to be right.
We have been fed a lie in this country
{and swallowed it very willingly}
that we women should be treated like princesses
and our husbands should be the faithful servants.
I must fight this lie and remind myself of the verses in Ephesians 5
Wives submit to your own husbands as to the Lord.
For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church.......
God ~in his infinite wisdom~ set up a structure for marriages.
And to be truly happy and blessed in my marriage, I need to follow that pattern.
I need to always try to be appreciative.....and supportive......
to hold my tongue when I'm mad......
to be slow to get angry and to be quick to forgive....
{saying sorry can be so hard for me - and that's just sinful pride}
If I want to play the part of a princess~~~
then my husband is the prince.









